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Post by mrjonesandme on Mar 25, 2016 22:20:24 GMT
So someone keep me company. I am sitting in the car while FH talks to his mom because she wanted to talk to him 'privately'. He told her she can say anything she wants in front of me but she's insisting and I'm not pushing this issue. She's creating so damn much drama of the stupid rehearsal dinner. It is not worth this much stress, seriously.
We just want a laid back, chill vibe. Artisan Pizza and craft beers at the b&b/barn that we have for the whole weekend. She wants us to go to a big fancy restaurant and get prime rib and seafood (I am deathly allergic and she knows this). I am going to be running around like crazy, I just want to relax the night before my wedding is that too much to ask. FH agrees, we are on the same page. Now she's pissed that we want to pay for it ourselves and she's running a whole "so your taking this away from us" guilt trip on us.
Anyway. I'm waiting in the car like a kid on time out...meme your thoughts?
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Post by nautibride on Mar 25, 2016 22:31:47 GMT
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Post by mrjonesandme on Mar 25, 2016 22:32:40 GMT
Ha!!! This is awesome!
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Post by nautibride on Mar 25, 2016 22:38:45 GMT
Sometimes I imagine brides that don't want advice saying this. Plus this show is amazing.
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Post by minnemiska on Mar 25, 2016 22:47:08 GMT
To your FMIL
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Post by JoRocka on Mar 25, 2016 23:29:13 GMT
Futurama IS awesome. Attachments:
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Post by mrjonesandme on Mar 25, 2016 23:32:25 GMT
What!?! We can gif too....I love this forum.
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Post by Morris on Mar 26, 2016 0:12:28 GMT
@ your mil
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Post by sarahkat on Mar 26, 2016 0:43:24 GMT
Ridiculous!
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Post by JoRocka on Mar 26, 2016 0:47:21 GMT
so- how did it turn out? Any news?
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Post by mrjonesandme on Mar 26, 2016 1:22:55 GMT
so- how did it turn out? Any news? Okay....so this is batshit crazy. Apparently her reasoning for going nuts are 4 fold: 1. She didn't get input into the guest list. She thinks we should have given her 1/3 of the people to invite as she pleases (she also wanted to call everyone and ask if they wanted to come before sending the STD/invites)-----no our wedding, our guest list. She also keeps talking about these random friends of hers she wants to invite that neither FH or I have ever met. Sorry...our small 60 person wedding is not the time we want to meeting new people. #sorrynotsorry 2. She is mad that I didn't invite her dress shopping with me. I wanted to go with just my mom. I have seen enough episodes of SYTTD to know that i didn't want a bunch of opinions clouding my judgement. I also went dress shopping with her FSIL and she was so rude and mean about all the dresses she tried on...thanks but no thanks! 3. She thinks I am planning everything and FH is getting no say. Not even a little true. Everything has been a joint effort. Granted, most of the time he said "do what you want" but I run everything by him. 4. She thought that the reception was going to be a free for all seating-wise. Not true...sit where you want at the ceremony, table assignments at the reception. Now that she gets this she wants to choose where everyone on her side sits. 5. She just doesn't feel like she was involved in any of the decisions, in general. ---She is paying for and helping plan FSILs wedding and FSIL is going nuts with all her meddling. No wonder we don't want her involved....also, we know how much money it's costing them so we purposely do not want a big elaborate rehearsal for that reason too. Plus...chill and relax the night before...yes please. Anyway.....I am done. My blood pressure is through the roof right now.
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Post by nautibride on Mar 26, 2016 1:26:42 GMT
So all stupid things. Sorry she is difficult.
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Post by Tiffany on Mar 26, 2016 1:26:45 GMT
I bet. That sucks that she is acting this way.
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Post by Tiffany on Mar 26, 2016 1:36:29 GMT
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Post by JoRocka on Mar 26, 2016 1:39:23 GMT
Aw I'm sorry. That's ridiculous. Weddings seriously bring out the worst in people.
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