Post by ives1013 on Apr 22, 2016 15:18:48 GMT
I had mentioned this in today's discussion thread but I really need to get this off my chest to someone other than BF. A bit of a backstory first: I am the youngest and only girl out of five children. The three oldest, Ju, Jo and R, are from my mom's first marriage whereas the youngest, D, is from my dad's first marriage. My father practically raised my mom's three boys and for the most part they consider him their father.
For most of my life Jo and I were incredibly close until 8 years ago when he married his wife A. She's manipulative and a drama queen. She asked me to be her MOH since she had no other friends. Things were fine until about halfway through their reception when I playfully slapped her on the ass. Now, I was not the only person to do so during the night but she got upset. I left upset and things were rocky ever since.
The last few months Jo got in my face about things I was posting on my Facebook page in regards to things going on. I am empathic person and my heart breaks about the shit going on in this country. He practically screamed at me that I didn't know what I was talking about and we got into this huge fight where he threatened to punch my teeth down my throat. I cut off all communication with him right then and there.
He then got into it with my mom and my dad about things. Now, my parents took him, his wife and their three kids when they got evicted and letting them live there pretty much for free. He and my mom got into it because of the disrespect he was showing my father. My mom told him to leave to cool down and he took it to mean to move out of the house. He left in a huff and then quit his $45K a year job with no notice and moved out to Kansas to mooch off his MIL.
And since he did this, my mother has not stopped crying and is truly upset about it. She has flat out said she does not want another grandkid, since he took two of them with him, and that she doesn't want to celebrate Mother's day this year because of it. I want nothing more than to fly out to Kansas and kick his ass because of what he has done to our mother.
My parents didn't have to let them live in their house, but they did and the pure disrespect shown truly makes me angry.
For most of my life Jo and I were incredibly close until 8 years ago when he married his wife A. She's manipulative and a drama queen. She asked me to be her MOH since she had no other friends. Things were fine until about halfway through their reception when I playfully slapped her on the ass. Now, I was not the only person to do so during the night but she got upset. I left upset and things were rocky ever since.
The last few months Jo got in my face about things I was posting on my Facebook page in regards to things going on. I am empathic person and my heart breaks about the shit going on in this country. He practically screamed at me that I didn't know what I was talking about and we got into this huge fight where he threatened to punch my teeth down my throat. I cut off all communication with him right then and there.
He then got into it with my mom and my dad about things. Now, my parents took him, his wife and their three kids when they got evicted and letting them live there pretty much for free. He and my mom got into it because of the disrespect he was showing my father. My mom told him to leave to cool down and he took it to mean to move out of the house. He left in a huff and then quit his $45K a year job with no notice and moved out to Kansas to mooch off his MIL.
And since he did this, my mother has not stopped crying and is truly upset about it. She has flat out said she does not want another grandkid, since he took two of them with him, and that she doesn't want to celebrate Mother's day this year because of it. I want nothing more than to fly out to Kansas and kick his ass because of what he has done to our mother.
My parents didn't have to let them live in their house, but they did and the pure disrespect shown truly makes me angry.