tayliarae
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Post by tayliarae on Apr 1, 2016 1:21:07 GMT
I have dressed up in the past for exes, but never for FH for whatever reason. It just hasn't happened yet.
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yasminadlv
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Post by yasminadlv on Apr 1, 2016 13:08:11 GMT
DH isn't partial to costumes...we've done a couple "dress up" sessions, but they never stay on long. lol The longest was on our wedding night, ironically. I did a "fashion show" of all the lingerie I was gifted (4 sets), and saved the one I knew he'd like the best for last. That one remains a favorite. I'll wear it on a day I'm feeling feisty, so when I come home to change out of work clothes..he he he.
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Post by mrsfaith on Apr 1, 2016 13:52:41 GMT
"I'll wear it on a day I'm feeling feisty, so when I come home to change out of work clothes..he he he." I do the same thing yasminadlv
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Post by bekaloveschris on Apr 1, 2016 15:23:15 GMT
Fav position is mostly any I can see him, I like to be on top and the beginning but I tire way to easy lol. Fav toys are rope and a lit candle... sadly hotel are the only time they come out. I'm not a huge fan of costumes, we tried it once but FH felt weird the whole time so it kinda killed the mood.
Does any one have a safe word or a "i dont want to kill the mood but we need to change position" Ours is parar (to stop in spanish) and Yellow.
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Post by ives1013 on Apr 1, 2016 15:26:38 GMT
We don't have a safe word but I will tell him when I'm getting tired or cramping up. Usually it's just me telling him to hurry up.
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Tiffany
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Post by Tiffany on Apr 1, 2016 16:00:54 GMT
We don't have a safe word. Mostly because my limits are much farther then his is really willing to do so we don't really need one.
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Post by kelseyac22 on Apr 1, 2016 16:21:14 GMT
we dont have a safe word, but if one of us wants to switch positions or he needs to stop to pull out (i have an iud but he is super cautious), we tap the other persons outer thigh rapidly.
FH isnt much for lingerie, but for whatever reason he loves costumes. I actually went to Catholic school, so my old uniform is a standard favorite. He often requests old halloween costumes as well, and he loves anything with stockings/tights
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yasminadlv
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Post by yasminadlv on Apr 1, 2016 17:09:09 GMT
When we were heavy into the BDSM stuff, we'd use red, or Mercy as our safe words. We don't really need them anymore, we've mellowed out quite a bit, but if there's ever a night that he's feeling a bit more kinky than I am, I'll pull "mercy" out so he knows I'm serious. lol (We really like to do roleplay with some play "fighting" type of stuff, so sometimes when I say no, I don't mean it.)
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Post by bekaloveschris on Apr 1, 2016 19:54:58 GMT
At first we just had parar. But I have a habit of saying "dont stop" and only half gets out it has ruined many of nights. So now he knows not to stop or change what hes doing no matter what "kind" of sex we are having
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Post by JoRocka on Apr 2, 2016 0:23:27 GMT
So. I have a weird sex life (stuck at work confession here) . FH waited 3ish years to have sex. And I have been on the pill most of the time. I blew past the tear your clothes off sexy time period and went straight into tanked libido.
All that to say we are still 'new' on our sex life so we haven't pushed it past the standard shovey rough sex and ass slappy hair pulling stuff.
So while I'm a big fan of bondage we haven't gotten there in our sex life. I love having sex with him. But it's such an effort. I rarely get 'turned on' .. Until we actually are well into it and then I'm like' oh yeah.. I like this whole having sex thing'. Which makes me sad. All that to say. My sex life is more vanilla than I care to admit and infrequent. Sad panda face.
I used to be this ravenous animal. Now it takes 2 glasses of wine to get the animal back. Eh don't judge me!
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Post by futuremrschando on Apr 2, 2016 1:06:53 GMT
FH is wayyyy more conservative than me so we don't have a safe word. He's starting to branch out a little though woohoo! We have a mirror on the wall opposite our bed so I like doggy while looking in the mirror so I can still see him.
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Post by ives1013 on Apr 2, 2016 3:12:39 GMT
So. I have a weird sex life (stuck at work confession here) . FH waited 3ish years to have sex. And I have been on the pill most of the time. I blew past the tear your clothes off sexy time period and went straight into tanked libido. All that to say we are still 'new' on our sex life so we haven't pushed it past the standard shovey rough sex and ass slappy hair pulling stuff. So while I'm a big fan of bondage we haven't gotten there in our sex life. I love having sex with him. But it's such an effort. I rarely get 'turned on' .. Until we actually are well into it and then I'm like' oh yeah.. I like this whole having sex thing'. Which makes me sad. All that to say. My sex life is more vanilla than I care to admit and infrequent. Sad panda face. I used to be this ravenous animal. Now it takes 2 glasses of wine to get the animal back. Eh don't judge me! I was the same way when I was on my original anti-depressant. It took forever for me to get turned on and poor BF was getting upset about it. So I spoke with my dr. and asked for an anti-depressant with no sexual side effects. Best decision ever. Now when we do get to our fun times, I'm nearly pouncing him. He loves it. We used to have some fun with bondage but I'm a squirmer so it became uncomfortable and a bit dangerous for me to be bound.
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yasminadlv
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Post by yasminadlv on Apr 2, 2016 15:50:09 GMT
So. I have a weird sex life (stuck at work confession here) . FH waited 3ish years to have sex. And I have been on the pill most of the time. I blew past the tear your clothes off sexy time period and went straight into tanked libido. All that to say we are still 'new' on our sex life so we haven't pushed it past the standard shovey rough sex and ass slappy hair pulling stuff. So while I'm a big fan of bondage we haven't gotten there in our sex life. I love having sex with him. But it's such an effort. I rarely get 'turned on' .. Until we actually are well into it and then I'm like' oh yeah.. I like this whole having sex thing'. Which makes me sad. All that to say. My sex life is more vanilla than I care to admit and infrequent. Sad panda face. I used to be this ravenous animal. Now it takes 2 glasses of wine to get the animal back. Eh don't judge me! No judgment. I know the feeling. Things are starting to get better now, but previously, we'd only have sex while high as fuck. I've been clean for a year, and DH is just reaching 2 weeks of being done for good. Sober sex is great, but it takes a lot of effort for either of us to get in the mood. **hugs**
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Post by katrinao on Apr 2, 2016 21:03:51 GMT
FH suffers from low testosterone. I try and tell him it's in his head, just so he doesn't get too down about it. Our sex life suffers because of it. When it happens it is hot and passionate but unfortunately it doesn't happen as often as I would like. But that's okay. I'm marrying the man not the D.
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Post by MrsP on Apr 4, 2016 17:58:38 GMT
DH and I have a pretty good sex life most of the time. We usually have sex about 4 or 5 times a week. He loves it in the shower so he will often get in the shower with me when I come home from practice. The shower doesn't always do it for me though. My favorite position is on top but he is pretty large so if he gets going then I have to take control or it can hurt. He does like anal so we do that sometimes. We don't use toys but I have thought about it- maybe we will soon. I've never really dressed up- just lingerie that didn't last long before he took it off me. We are still pretty playful and keep it going- we pants each other sometimes, I love to do it to him while he's doing the dishes and his hands are in the sink. He is a fan of reaching up into my skirt while I'm making dinner or something. Since we live alone it's all good. I guess I'm lucky!
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